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Post by minimcbeef on Jan 13, 2007 19:36:13 GMT -5
Swearing Imposes a Personal PenaltyIt gives a bad impression It makes you unpleasant to be with It endangers your relationships It's a tool for whiners and complainers It reduces respect people have for you It shows you don't have control It's a sign of a bad attitude It discloses a lack of character It's immature It reflects ignorance It sets a bad example Swearing is Bad for SocietyIt contributes to the decline of civility It represents the dumbing down of America It offends more people than you think It makes others uncomfortable It is disrespectful of others It turns discussions into arguments It can be a sign of hostility It can lead to violence Swearing corrupts the English languageIt's abrasive, lazy language It doesn't communicate clearly It neglects more meaningful words It lacks imagination It has lost its effectiveness Laugh at me now! Lol, jk. words like that inspire you?
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Post by Mantis on Jan 13, 2007 19:39:03 GMT -5
No, words like this: Mine eyes must deceiveth me! Was that Mantis who posted an anim with a CURSE word in it? Bwahahahahah!! Inspired me to post this.
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Post by minimcbeef on Jan 13, 2007 21:36:09 GMT -5
i see. wvr.
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Post by SkullFarmer on Jan 13, 2007 21:36:24 GMT -5
You didn't write it, but you did choose to post it. That was just a gentle reminder that no one is blameless.
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Post by Snargle on Jan 13, 2007 21:39:21 GMT -5
Blameless of what, Useing a word?
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Post by SkullFarmer on Jan 13, 2007 23:22:07 GMT -5
In this case, yes. Read up on the history before commenting please. It's readily available right here on the site.
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Post by Gleasonator on Jan 14, 2007 0:33:39 GMT -5
Swearing Imposes a Personal PenaltyIt gives a bad impression It makes you unpleasant to be with It endangers your relationships It's a tool for whiners and complainers It reduces respect people have for you It shows you don't have control It's a sign of a bad attitude It discloses a lack of character It's immature It reflects ignorance It sets a bad example Swearing is Bad for SocietyIt contributes to the decline of civility It represents the dumbing down of America It offends more people than you think It makes others uncomfortable It is disrespectful of others It turns discussions into arguments It can be a sign of hostility It can lead to violence Swearing corrupts the English languageIt's abrasive, lazy language It doesn't communicate clearly It neglects more meaningful words It lacks imagination It has lost its effectiveness Laugh at me now! Lol, jk. Which is why you are no longer a mod, need I remind you.
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 14, 2007 10:32:20 GMT -5
In this case, yes. Read up on the history before commenting please. It's readily available right here on the site. THANK YOU!
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Post by Mantis on Jan 14, 2007 18:06:15 GMT -5
You didn't write it, but you did choose to post it. That was just a gentle reminder that no one is blameless. Yeah, I found it here: www.cusscontrol.com/swearing.htmlNo, there's something I need to remind you. Remember when I said I care more about the good of the world than these forums? It's OK. We're done discussing it. I don't care, I understand.
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Post by Mantis on Jan 14, 2007 18:15:50 GMT -5
Read this too: Your language might offend some people, but the tone and attitude behind your words do far greater damage to all of your relationships. Even if your friends and associates commonly use cuss words, you will be perceived as more mature, intelligent, articulate, polite, considerate and pleasant if you control your language and the emotions that typically prompt expletives. You can choose to have character and class, or be considered rude, crude and crass. Cursing is sometimes humorous, but sometimes abusive. It can help vent anger, or provoke it. It can relieve stress, or cause it. It can be clever and flirtatious, or sexist and intimidating. Consequently, be aware of when and where you swear. Control it, tame it, time it. Or, to be on the safe side, stop using it altogether. 1. Recognize that swearing does damage. You probably swear because it is easy, fun, candid, emphatic, expressive, breaks rules, and somehow partially reduces anger and pain. But the negatives outweigh the positives. You really don't win an argument by swearing. You don't prove that you are smart or articulate. You don't earn respect or admiration. You don't motivate, you intimidate. Swearing doesn't get you hired, promoted, or romantically connected. 2. Start by eliminating casual swearing. Pretend that your sweet little grandmother or your young daughter is always next to you. Use inflections for emphasis instead of offensive adjectives. Be more descriptive instead of using the "s" word to describe everything from objects, work and the weather to the way you feel, the way someone looks, and the way something smells. 3. Think positively. Look to the bright side. Develop a "can do" attitude. Worry only to the point that motivates you to prepare for the problem, then hope for the best. A positive mental attitude not only eliminates lots of swearing, it brings you contentment and brightens your personality. 4. Practice being patient. When you are stuck in line or in traffic, ask yourself if a few more minutes matters. Be honest -- does it really matter? If so, and you have no control of the situation, plan the rest of your day or do the thinking that you say you never have time to do. Talk to someone, even a stranger in line with you. 5. Cope, don't cuss. We live in an imperfect world, yet our expectations continually increase. Each day can be filled with aggravations, delays, disappointments and frustrations. The fact is, we have to deal with them anyway. So stop cussing and learn to cope. Consider even the smallest annoyance a challenge, and feel proud of yourself for taking care of it cheerfully and efficiently. 6. Stop complaining. Before you start griping or whining about something, remind yourself of a very important reality: no one wants to hear it! Why would they? Avoid complaining about matters that you and the people with you have no control over. For all other complaints, try to offer a rational solution. Others will admire your common sense, wisdom and calm approach to the problem. 7. Use alternative words. English is a colorful language, but chronic cursers repeatedly use the same, unimaginative words that have been around for centuries. Take the time to develop your own list of alternatives to the nasty words you now use, relying on your own intelligence, a thesaurus, good books, and even some of the more clever TV shows. Select a few powerful or even funny words, and get in the habit of substituting them for swear words. For example, instead of B.S., choices range from lie, fabrication, nonsense and exaggeration to bunk, baloney, drivel, malarkey, hokum, hogwash and balderdash. They might not give you satisfaction at first, but they will eventually. 8. Make your point politely. Some substitute words can be just as offensive if your tone is abrasive or you insult someone. Think of the response to what you are about to say, and decide if you need to reword your statement to be more effective. For example, if someone suggests that you are doing something incorrectly, your response can range from "Who gives a flying f___?" to "I don't care," to "It really doesn't matter," or "I think my way is faster." The first reply is defensive, defiant, belligerent, and reflects a terrible attitude. The last reply is a justification that the other person might appreciate. Take the time to make your point in a mature and convincing manner. 9. Think of what you should have said. It is easy to blurt out a swear word at an inappropriate time, or to bark out a tactless or tasteless remark before you have a chance to consider the impact. Think of what you could have said. After you shout an expletive, simply say the tamer word you wished you had said. If you make a statement that you later realize was negative, confrontational or rude, think of how you could have phrased the statement. Over time, these exercises will train you to think and act differently. 10. Work at it. Breaking the swearing habit might prove to be no easier that losing weight, giving up cigarettes, or correcting any other habit. It takes practice, support from others, and a true desire to be a better person -- not only by controlling your language, but the emotions that prompt you to swear. Here are a few exercises to condition yourself: • Think in clean language, and switch negative thoughts into positive solutions. • When you are on your way to a situation you know will test your temper and your tongue, plan ahead what you will say and how you will say it. • Tell your family or friends what you are doing, and you will be more cautious around them. • Determine when and why you swear the most, and develop your own tricks for changing your behavior. Special Thanks to www.cusscontrol.com.
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Post by Kocrspinal on Jan 14, 2007 20:18:00 GMT -5
Read this too: Your language might offend some people, but the tone and attitude behind your words do far greater damage to all of your relationships. Even if your friends and associates commonly use cuss words, you will be perceived as more mature, intelligent, articulate, polite, considerate and pleasant if you control your language and the emotions that typically prompt expletives. You can choose to have character and class, or be considered rude, crude and crass. Cursing is sometimes humorous, but sometimes abusive. It can help vent anger, or provoke it. It can relieve stress, or cause it. It can be clever and flirtatious, or sexist and intimidating. Consequently, be aware of when and where you swear. Control it, tame it, time it. Or, to be on the safe side, stop using it altogether. 1. Recognize that swearing does damage. You probably swear because it is easy, fun, candid, emphatic, expressive, breaks rules, and somehow partially reduces anger and pain. But the negatives outweigh the positives. You really don't win an argument by swearing. You don't prove that you are smart or articulate. You don't earn respect or admiration. You don't motivate, you intimidate. Swearing doesn't get you hired, promoted, or romantically connected. 2. Start by eliminating casual swearing. Pretend that your sweet little grandmother or your young daughter is always next to you. Use inflections for emphasis instead of offensive adjectives. Be more descriptive instead of using the "s" word to describe everything from objects, work and the weather to the way you feel, the way someone looks, and the way something smells. 3. Think positively. Look to the bright side. Develop a "can do" attitude. Worry only to the point that motivates you to prepare for the problem, then hope for the best. A positive mental attitude not only eliminates lots of swearing, it brings you contentment and brightens your personality. 4. Practice being patient. When you are stuck in line or in traffic, ask yourself if a few more minutes matters. Be honest -- does it really matter? If so, and you have no control of the situation, plan the rest of your day or do the thinking that you say you never have time to do. Talk to someone, even a stranger in line with you. 5. Cope, don't cuss. We live in an imperfect world, yet our expectations continually increase. Each day can be filled with aggravations, delays, disappointments and frustrations. The fact is, we have to deal with them anyway. So stop cussing and learn to cope. Consider even the smallest annoyance a challenge, and feel proud of yourself for taking care of it cheerfully and efficiently. 6. Stop complaining. Before you start griping or whining about something, remind yourself of a very important reality: no one wants to hear it! Why would they? Avoid complaining about matters that you and the people with you have no control over. For all other complaints, try to offer a rational solution. Others will admire your common sense, wisdom and calm approach to the problem. 7. Use alternative words. English is a colorful language, but chronic cursers repeatedly use the same, unimaginative words that have been around for centuries. Take the time to develop your own list of alternatives to the nasty words you now use, relying on your own intelligence, a thesaurus, good books, and even some of the more clever TV shows. Select a few powerful or even funny words, and get in the habit of substituting them for swear words. For example, instead of B.S., choices range from lie, fabrication, nonsense and exaggeration to bunk, baloney, drivel, malarkey, hokum, hogwash and balderdash. They might not give you satisfaction at first, but they will eventually. 8. Make your point politely. Some substitute words can be just as offensive if your tone is abrasive or you insult someone. Think of the response to what you are about to say, and decide if you need to reword your statement to be more effective. For example, if someone suggests that you are doing something incorrectly, your response can range from "Who gives a flying f___?" to "I don't care," to "It really doesn't matter," or "I think my way is faster." The first reply is defensive, defiant, belligerent, and reflects a terrible attitude. The last reply is a justification that the other person might appreciate. Take the time to make your point in a mature and convincing manner. 9. Think of what you should have said. It is easy to blurt out a swear word at an inappropriate time, or to bark out a tactless or tasteless remark before you have a chance to consider the impact. Think of what you could have said. After you shout an expletive, simply say the tamer word you wished you had said. If you make a statement that you later realize was negative, confrontational or rude, think of how you could have phrased the statement. Over time, these exercises will train you to think and act differently. 10. Work at it. Breaking the swearing habit might prove to be no easier that losing weight, giving up cigarettes, or correcting any other habit. It takes practice, support from others, and a true desire to be a better person -- not only by controlling your language, but the emotions that prompt you to swear. Here are a few exercises to condition yourself: • Think in clean language, and switch negative thoughts into positive solutions. • When you are on your way to a situation you know will test your temper and your tongue, plan ahead what you will say and how you will say it. • Tell your family or friends what you are doing, and you will be more cautious around them. • Determine when and why you swear the most, and develop your own tricks for changing your behavior. Special Thanks to www.cusscontrol.com. I read all of that. I'm with you Mantis! ;D
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 14, 2007 21:48:48 GMT -5
You people are too sensative.
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Post by Gleasonator on Jan 15, 2007 0:42:26 GMT -5
You didn't write it, but you did choose to post it. That was just a gentle reminder that no one is blameless. Yeah, I found it here: www.cusscontrol.com/swearing.htmlNo, there's something I need to remind you. Remember when I said I care more about the good of the world than these forums? It's OK. We're done discussing it. I don't care, I understand. *sigh* *wonders is he should say something or just leave it*
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Post by Mantis on Jan 15, 2007 0:43:02 GMT -5
Thanks! I'm glad you are. It's almost like people just completely don't care. What? Say something, I want to know what your thinking. (Not aiming directly at you) Don't try to avoid this or take it lightly, this is an important matter.
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 12:07:12 GMT -5
Thanks! I'm glad you are. It's almost like people just completely don't care. What? Say something, I want to know what your thinking. (Not aiming directly at you) Don't try to avoid this or take it lightly, this is an important matter. It's really not a big deal. Just live your life, and I'll live mine.
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Post by minimcbeef on Jan 15, 2007 13:14:23 GMT -5
*wants to sing seven seconds... MEEEEEEEEEE AND YOUUUUUU WERE GONNA FIGHT TEH NARROW MINDS MAKE OUR OWN RULES! LIVE YOUR LIFE AND ILL LIVE MIIIIIIIIIIIIINE *goes acoustic
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Post by Snargle on Jan 15, 2007 15:35:38 GMT -5
Whoa the thing says that it declines civility. There is no such thing as civility or i just keeps changing. AND AMERICA IS ALMOST ALL DUMB EXCEPT FOR A HAND FULL EVRYONE SWEARS! Is that dfrom like a soccer mom site or something?
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Post by Kocrspinal on Jan 15, 2007 17:39:25 GMT -5
Whoa the thing says that it declines civility. There is no such thing as civility or i just keeps changing. AND AMERICA IS ALMOST ALL DUMB EXCEPT FOR A HAND FULL EVRYONE SWEARS! Is that dfrom like a soccer mom site or something? Talk, clearly.
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Post by Trogdor on Jan 15, 2007 18:09:34 GMT -5
Thanks! I'm glad you are. It's almost like people just completely don't care. What? Say something, I want to know what your thinking. (Not aiming directly at you) Don't try to avoid this or take it lightly, this is an important matter. It's really not a big deal. Just live your life, and I'll live mine. It's really a big deal. Just live your life your way, and i'll live mine God's way.
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 18:14:11 GMT -5
It's really not a big deal. Just live your life, and I'll live mine. It's really a big deal. Just live your life your way, and i'll live mine God's way. Swearing isn't a big deal. You know what is? War.
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Post by Kocrspinal on Jan 15, 2007 18:46:31 GMT -5
It's really a big deal. Just live your life your way, and i'll live mine God's way. Swearing isn't a big deal. You know what is? War. Well, it's against God. I know you may not believe, but I do. And I'm stopping.
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Post by Mantis on Jan 15, 2007 19:30:14 GMT -5
Thanks! I'm glad you are. It's almost like people just completely don't care. What? Say something, I want to know what your thinking. (Not aiming directly at you) Don't try to avoid this or take it lightly, this is an important matter. It's really not a big deal. Just live your life, and I'll live mine. How is it not a big deal when: Swearing Imposes a Personal PenaltyIt gives a bad impression It makes you unpleasant to be with It endangers your relationships It's a tool for whiners and complainers It reduces respect people have for you It shows you don't have control It's a sign of a bad attitude It discloses a lack of character It's immature It reflects ignorance It sets a bad example Swearing is Bad for SocietyIt contributes to the decline of civility It represents the dumbing down of America It offends more people than you think It makes others uncomfortable It is disrespectful of others It turns discussions into arguments It can be a sign of hostility It can lead to violence Swearing corrupts the English languageIt's abrasive, lazy language It doesn't communicate clearly It neglects more meaningful words It lacks imagination It has lost its effectiveness
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 20:10:44 GMT -5
If it is in your religion, then I will respect that. Just keep me out of it.
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Post by Mantis on Jan 15, 2007 20:16:43 GMT -5
If it is in your religion, then I will respect that. Just keep me out of it. No, no, no. Completely out of the question. XD If you don't want help from those who care, you could either leave this thread, (and anywhere else we may try to help), or tell Alex to ban me. This is important, and I really care to get it through the most heads as possible.
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 20:23:38 GMT -5
If it is in your religion, then I will respect that. Just keep me out of it. No, no, no. Completely out of the question. XD If you don't want help from those who care, you could either leave this thread, (and anywhere else we may try to help), or tell Alex to ban me. This is important, and I really care to get it through the most heads as possible. So in other words, you're forcing me?
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Post by Kocrspinal on Jan 15, 2007 20:27:52 GMT -5
No, no, no. Completely out of the question. XD If you don't want help from those who care, you could either leave this thread, (and anywhere else we may try to help), or tell Alex to ban me. This is important, and I really care to get it through the most heads as possible. So in other words, you're forcing me? No, he said he cares for you. He never said you had to do it.
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 20:30:56 GMT -5
Alright Mantis, I respect your offer. But I must decline. And I don't want to have to come to this thread knowing if I do, I'm going to try to be persuaded.
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Post by Mantis on Jan 15, 2007 21:07:39 GMT -5
Thank you for taking this in a calm, civilized manner. ;D But i'm afraid you can't decline until you have full understanding of what we're trying to tell you. And the only way I can know if you have a full understanding, is to agree and join with us. So, basically, we're not giving up. XD
This is a "Swearing" thread, isn't it?
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Post by MarioOfTheStars on Jan 15, 2007 21:12:49 GMT -5
You can persuade me all you want but I won't respond. You're not going to do this on all the threads, are you?
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Post by minimcbeef on Jan 15, 2007 22:03:23 GMT -5
god i hope not. think of the people who arent mariobros!
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